To be clear from the outset, I am married. I am not looking for a partner or LTR. I am doing this without my husbands knowledge. I care very much for my partner but there are certain things which he cannot do for me, things he would find disgusting. Hence discretion is a must. This also means I am only available during the week, afternoons and early evening.
Now that's out of the way, as the title says I adore anal. I genuinely orgasm during anal if performed with a reasonable amount of passion. I have felt for some time these responses in me would be very much deeper if I was forcibly used anally by a Dom.
I am curvy, athletic and to put it bluntly, my circle of friends, especially my husbands so-called mates, consider me very attractive.
Safe sex is a must (happy to perform oral without a condom), although if I find the right person I will go bareback after we both take STI/STD tests.
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My Ideal Person:
I am in no hurry so do not expect a quick response. I would rather consider all contacts thoroughly before responding.
I am looking for an experienced Dom in the first instance. If you are under 40 don't bother as I need someone with a genuine depth of experience. I want to be used, forced, verbally abused, bound, restrained... I'm sure you know what I want. I want a Dom who understands, has the sensitivity to be gentle and who knows when to be brutal. I want a Dom who can feel my physical and mental state, whether he is fucking me gently or with a vengeance.
I want a Dom who is confident in giving instruction and taking what he wants. I have limits, if it is not in my alt fetish list then it is not something I will entertain. He also has to have a reasonable social circle in this field. A female Dom or two and at least one other male, as I would like to progress to group activity and experiment with my bi-tendencies.
Yes its a lot to ask, but I am hoping to find at least 80% of what I want.
Update: 22nd May I am no longer looking, not for the next 5 or 6 weeks. After that I will probably be searching for another strong deviant.
P.S. It seems that I prefer hand, belt, and the imaginative use of every day objects rather than sex 'toys'.
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